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Rose Colored Glasses (4 of 4) | Life in Technicolor
To end on a more positive note, I want to share an excerpt from the writings of David Maxwell, editor of the Donalsonville News: ...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Jan 27, 20231 min read


Rose Colored Glasses (3 of 4) | Change Your Future
The second thing that came to mind about the definition of the term rose-colored glasses as NOT wanting to talk about something because...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Jan 20, 20231 min read


Rose Colored Glasses (2 of 4) | Change Your Focus
Dictionary.com says that Rose-colored glasses allude to a cheerful or optimistic view of things, usually WITHOUT a valid basis. Try...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Jan 13, 20232 min read


Rose Colored Glasses (1 of 4) | Change Your Frame
Welcome to 2023! You may have heard this next observation a lot already, but I STILL can’t believe that 2022 has come and gone SO fast. ...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Jan 6, 20232 min read


The Gift That Keeps On Giving ( 4 of 4) | Belonging is Demonstrated
Let’s look at ways to celebrate and demonstrate Belonging as a lifestyle during the holidays. One of my favorite podcast guests, Ms. Lisa...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Dec 23, 20221 min read


The Gift That Keeps On Giving ( 3 of 4) | Belonging is a Mindset
Research shows that if we can use “self-talk” (and it works with others, too!) that envisions clearly and compellingly a picture of the...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Dec 16, 20221 min read


The Gift That Keeps On Giving ( 2 of 4) | Belonging is Human Affirming
Just as cultivating Belonging is a lifestyle choice, living healthily, AFTER the holidays is also a lifestyle choice that requires being...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Dec 9, 20221 min read


The Gift That Keeps On Giving ( 1 of 4) | Belonging is a Lifestyle
The holiday season is upon us and however you celebrate, one thing is universal among holidays regardless of one’s heritage: Promoting a...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Dec 2, 20221 min read


An Attitude of Gratitude (4 of 4) | Moving On and Moving Forward
In his book, Healing Career Wounds, Rick spends a bit of time explaining the relevance of someone’s career wound or what Simon Sinek...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Nov 25, 20221 min read


An Attitude of Gratitude (3 of 4) | Reframe, Recover, and Refocus
Think of getting the shaft as a forcing function to take stock of your skills, strengths, and potential to move up the company ladder, or...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Nov 18, 20221 min read


An Attitude of Gratitude (2 of 4) | Trust the Process
One of the hardest aspects of dealing with a shaft experience is believing that, more often than not, the painful past will eventually...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Nov 11, 20221 min read


An Attitude of Gratitude (1 of 4) | Smiling Through the Shaft
This month, we’re going to focus on how we can be grateful for the lessons we can learn from our career wounds, or what I refer to as...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Nov 4, 20221 min read


Defusing the Scariness of Diversity (4 of 4) | Trading Mind Tricks for the Treats of Diversity
Third, depending upon how we’ve been conditioned to make assumptions about other people, it may take us a while to recognize our...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Oct 28, 20221 min read


Defusing the Scariness of Diversity (3 of 4) | Untangling from the Web of Fear
Second, what we THINK we know about other people is probably much scarier than the TRUTH about other people. Thankfully, the truth is...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Oct 21, 20221 min read


Defusing the Scariness of Diversity (2 of 4) | Real vs. Perceived Threats
Thinking back to the spider episode of Night Gallery, I’m reminded of another time that will make you laugh. On one of our last family...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Oct 14, 20222 min read


Defusing the Scariness of Diversity (1 of 4) | Conditioned to be Afraid
Welcome to the month of October which means settling into fall, enjoying everything flavored with pumpkin spice, and perhaps sightings of...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Oct 7, 20222 min read


Explain Belonging to Attain Belonging (4 of 4) | Belonging Feels Like…
Belonging feels like being an essential member of a community. When one feels that they belong someplace, or belong to a group, they can...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Sep 23, 20222 min read


Explain Belonging to Attain Belonging (3 of 4) | Belonging Looks Like…
Belonging looks like having someone’s back. This may mean, in some circumstances, speaking up for someone who may not feel comfortable...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Sep 16, 20221 min read


Explain Belonging to Attain Belonging (2 of 4) | Belonging Sounds Like…
Belonging sounds like telling someone how much you value them. We may believe that giving people too much positive feedback may make them...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Sep 9, 20222 min read


Explain Belonging to Attain Belonging (1 of 4) | Belonging Acts Like…
Monday is Labor Day and I wanted to think about labor in terms of the labor of love that is also known as fostering Belonging. Fostering...

Anita Polite-Wilson, Ph.D.
Sep 2, 20222 min read
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